If a child is struggling to breathe, is floppy or will not wake, or their skin, lips or tongue look blue or grey: call 999 now. Colour changes are harder to see on brown and black skin, so check the palms, soles, lips and tongue. If you are worried but it is not an emergency, call NHS 111. In Northern Ireland use your GP out-of-hours service.

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The sleep space

A clear, flat, firm, separate surface, the right temperature, and room sharing.

The short version

  • Keep your baby in your room for sleep, day and night, for the first six months, in their own cot, crib or Moses basket.
  • Your baby needs remarkably little: a firm, flat, waterproof mattress and lightweight bedding. A Moses basket, crib, cot or travel cot all work.
  • Take pillows, duvets, quilts, cot bumpers, soft toys, weighted bedding, positioners, pods, nests, rolled towels and sheepskins out of the sleep space.
  • Keep the room at 16 to 20 degrees. To check if your baby is too hot, feel their chest or the back of their neck.
  • Keep your baby smoke free day and night: if anyone in the household smokes, the risk of SIDS is much higher.
  • Check their chest or the back of the neck, not hands and feet, which feel cold even on a warm baby.
  • If you have no safe place for your baby to sleep at all, tell your midwife or health visitor. They can help.

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A clear, flat, firm, separate sleep space

Your baby needs remarkably little: a firm, flat, waterproof mattress and lightweight bedding. A Moses basket, crib, cot or travel cot all work, as long as the mattress is firm and flat.

Take these out of the sleep space:

If money is tight

A second-hand mattress is acceptable to the Lullaby Trust if it has a 100% waterproof cover, no tears or water damage, no sagging and a fire-resistant label. If you have no safe place for your baby to sleep at all, tell your midwife or health visitor: UNICEF UK specifically asks health professionals to help with a lack of a cot, bed or space for sleeping, so it is a normal thing to raise.

Room temperature

The Lullaby Trust and the NHS agree on 16 to 20 degrees Celsius, because overheating raises the risk of SIDS. To check whether your baby is too hot, feel their chest or the back of their neck. Hands and feet are a poor guide and are often cool even when a baby is warm enough. If they feel hot or sweaty, take a layer off.

If you cannot hold the room in that range, and plenty of homes cannot, work with layers and keep checking their chest. The roughly 18 degrees you may see for older children's bedrooms is separate advice for a different age group.

Sharing your room for six months

The Lullaby Trust is direct: "Babies should always be in the same room as you for the first six months for sleep, day and night." The risk of SIDS is lower when your baby sleeps in the same room as you than when they sleep alone, and you can leave the room briefly. Same room, separate sleep surface: your baby in their own cot, crib or Moses basket, next to your bed. It costs nothing and works the same whether you have several rooms or one.

Smoking and vaping

The Lullaby Trust says that if anyone in the household smokes, during pregnancy or after the birth, "the risk of SIDS is much higher." Keeping your baby smoke free day and night is one of the four headline messages.

On vaping they are honest that the evidence is not there yet: "There is no research available on vaping and SIDS yet, though we are funding research to discover more." Their advice is to keep your baby away from vapes and their vapour, and because "there is currently no research around bedsharing and vaping", not to share a bed with your baby if you vape. If you want to stop smoking, your midwife, health visitor or GP can refer you to a free NHS service. Asking will not get you a lecture.

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Last checked 1 August 2026. This page is general information, not medical advice. If you are worried about your child, speak to your health visitor or GP.