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Sleeping position and airway

On the back, feet to foot, and why seats and slings need care.

The short version

  • Put your baby on their back for every sleep, naps included, and everywhere, including at the childminder's.
  • Your baby dozing on your chest while you are awake and watching them is fine, and good for both of you.
  • Place your baby feet to foot: feet touching the bottom of the cot, blankets tucked in firmly. A sleeping bag needs no extra bedding.
  • Avoid sleeping your baby in bouncy chairs, swings or beanbags, and take them out of the car seat on arrival onto a firm, flat surface.
  • Once your baby can roll both ways by themselves, you can leave them to find their own position. Still start every sleep on their back.

The rest of this page explains where this comes from. You do not have to read it tonight.

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Back to sleep

The Lullaby Trust's wording is plain: "Put your baby down on their back for every sleep. No special equipment or products are needed to keep them on their back." Nothing you have to buy makes this safer.

Sleeping a baby on their side or stomach increases the risk of sudden infant death syndrome (SIDS), and consistency matters: babies usually placed on their backs but sometimes on their fronts are at particularly high risk. So it is every sleep, naps included, and everywhere, including at the childminder's.

A baby lying on its back in an empty cot A cot seen from above containing a firm flat mattress and a baby lying face up, with nothing else inside. Below the cot, a pillow, a soft toy and a duvet are each crossed through to show they are kept out.
A safer cot: a firm, flat, waterproof mattress, lightweight bedding, and your baby on their back. Pillows, soft toys and duvets stay out for the first year.

When your baby starts rolling

Once your baby can roll from back to front and front to back by themselves, the Lullaby Trust says "you can leave them to find their own sleep position." You still start every sleep by placing them on their back. Do not use rolled blankets, wedges or positioners to stop them rolling.

Sleeping on your chest is a different thing

The Lullaby Trust says a baby sleeping on a parent's chest "whilst parents are awake has not been shown to be a risk, and such close contact is in fact beneficial." The danger is a baby sleeping on their front unsupervised, which "gives rise to a greatly increased risk of SIDS."

So your baby dozing on your chest while you are awake and watching them is fine, and good for both of you. What matters is the plan for if you fall asleep, which is further down this page.

Feet to foot

NHS advice is to "always place your baby on their back to sleep in the feet-to-foot position." The Lullaby Trust defines it simply: "Place baby at the bottom of the cot so they can't wriggle under covers (this is called feet to foot)."

Their feet go right at the foot end, touching it, and blankets are tucked in firmly. Feet-to-foot is specifically about tucked blankets. If you use a baby sleeping bag, no extra bedding is needed and there is nothing to slide under.

The feet-to-foot position compared with a baby placed too high in the cot Two cots seen from above. In the first, marked with a tick, the baby lies at the bottom of the cot with its feet touching the foot end and a blanket tucked in no higher than its shoulders. In the second, marked with a cross, the baby lies high in the cot with the blanket pulled up over its face and empty space below its feet.
Left, feet-to-foot: the feet touch the foot of the cot and the blanket is tucked no higher than the shoulders. Right, the baby is too high in the cot and can slide down under the covers.

Seats, slings and your baby's airway

A young baby's head is heavy and their neck is not strong. If their chin drops onto their chest, the Lullaby Trust says that position can "fold your baby's airway". This is why the advice is to avoid sleeping your baby in "anything that keeps your baby in a seated, or inclined, position, such as bouncy chairs, swings, hammocks and beanbags." If they fall asleep in one, move them onto a firm, flat surface.

Where this comes from

Last checked 1 August 2026. This page is general information, not medical advice. If you are worried about your child, speak to your health visitor or GP.