If a child is struggling to breathe, is floppy or will not wake, or their skin, lips or tongue look blue or grey: call 999 now. Colour changes are harder to see on brown and black skin, so check the palms, soles, lips and tongue. If you are worried but it is not an emergency, call NHS 111. In Northern Ireland use your GP out-of-hours service.

MarionSleep help for families

Parenting, pregnancy and family

General family support, feeding, prematurity and multiples.

The short version

  • Awake at 4am? The National Breastfeeding Helpline, 0300 100 0212, answers 24 hours a day, 365 days a year. It is not freephone.
  • Out of hours, text FAMILYACTION to 85258, free and 24/7. FamilyLine itself is 0808 802 6666, weekdays 9am to 7pm, callers 18 and over.
  • General parenting worries: Coram Family Lives, 0808 800 2222, weekdays 9am to 9pm and weekends 10am to 3pm. Not a 24-hour service.
  • Feeding in the evening: NCT's Infant Feeding Line, 0300 330 0700 option 1, every day 8am to midnight, including bank holidays.
  • Do not count on a phone line for Bliss, PANDAS or Gingerbread: those helplines have closed or never existed. Use their online routes instead.

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Parenting, pregnancy and family support

National Breastfeeding Helpline

Run by The Breastfeeding Network, Scottish charity SC027007 (OSCR), jointly with the Association of Breastfeeding Mothers

24 hours, 365 days 0300 number

0300 100 0212

24 hours a day, 365 days a year. Daytime service 9:30am to 9:30pm, and NBH@Night 9:30pm to 9:30am

This is the only genuinely round-the-clock parenting line in this directory, and it is the one most parents have never heard of. If you are up at 4am with a baby who will not settle and feeding is part of the picture, someone will answer. Support is available in Welsh, Polish, Bengali and Sylheti. The Lullaby Trust's own parent guide recommends it.

It is a 0300 number, so it is not freephone.

The National Childbirth Trust (NCT)

Registered charity 801395 (England and Wales) and SC041592 (Scotland), company 2370573

Infant feeding 0300 number

0300 330 0700

Option 1, the Infant Feeding Line: every day from 8am to midnight, including bank holidays. Options 2 to 4: Monday to Friday 9 to 5, closed on bank holidays

The Infant Feeding Line runs late into the evening, which makes it one of the few options once the health visiting service has closed for the day. We have since confirmed the options 2 to 4 hours, including the bank holiday closure, on NCT's own contact page.

Home-Start UK

Registered charity 1108837 (England and Wales) and SC039172 (Scotland)

Local schemes Not a helpline

0116 464 5490 is Home-Start's head office, not a helpline. Do not ring it expecting support at 2am. Home-Start works through over 200 local schemes, and you find yours through the national site.

What a local Home-Start offers is a trained volunteer who calls by every week for a couple of hours, for as long as the family needs support or until the youngest child turns five or starts full-time education. Home-Start describe their support as free, confidential and non-judgemental. Around 17 per cent of families refer themselves, so you do not have to wait for a professional to do it for you.

Their material describes support given alongside you rather than instead of you, so it is best not to expect a volunteer to take over the baby while you sleep.

Coram Family Lives

Registered charity 1077722 (England and Wales). Formerly Family Lives, and before that Parentline Plus

Free All parenting worries

0808 800 2222

Monday to Friday 9am to 9pm. Weekends 10am to 3pm

These are the current hours. This is not a 24-hour service. The Charity Commission register still describes it as a 24-hour helpline and that wording is out of date, so if you have seen "24 hours" elsewhere, this is why. The old familylives.org.uk address now redirects to Coram Family Lives.

coramfamilylives.org.uk

PANDAS Foundation

Registered charity 1149485 (England and Wales) and SC051814 (Scotland), company 7740327

Free Perinatal mental health No phone helpline

PANDAS do not publish a number to call. Their own site does use the word "helpline", which is confusing, but the link goes to a free booked callback service rather than a line you dial. If you have found a phone number for PANDAS on a council directory or an NHS page, we could not confirm it against anything PANDAS themselves publish, and we are not going to reprint it.

What does work, and is free:

  • WhatsApp 07903 508334. Free.
  • A free booked callback, arranged through their website.
  • Weekly online drop-ins, and a dedicated "Support for Dads" section.

We are not giving hours here because PANDAS' own two pages disagree with each other about them. Check their support page for the hours that apply on the day you contact them.

Bliss

Registered charity 1002973 (England and Wales), which is also the parent charity of Bliss Scotland (Charity) Limited, SC040878

Premature and sick babies No phone helpline

Bliss has no telephone support helpline. A freephone number is widely circulated for Bliss on other websites; it appears nowhere on bliss.org.uk and we checked directly. Bliss do publish an office line, 020 7378 1122, but it is for general enquiries and asks you to leave a message, so it is not a route to support at 3am.

What Bliss does offer instead:

  • Email support at hello@bliss.org.uk
  • Video call support, a bookable 30 minute call with a volunteer, arranged through their site. Availability sits inside their booking calendar, so we are not quoting hours.

Bliss support page

Twins Trust (formerly Tamba)

Registered charity 1076478 (England and Wales) and SC041055 (Scotland), company 03688825

Free Twins and multiples

0800 138 0509

Monday to Friday 10am to 1pm and 7pm to 10pm, excluding bank holidays

Twins Trust describe the service simply as their Helpline. If you have seen it called Twinline, that is the older Tamba name and no longer appears on their site. Their website is intermittently unreliable, so if it will not load, the number above still works.

Tommy's

Registered charity 1060508 (England and Wales) and SC039280 (Scotland)

Freephone Answered by midwives

0800 014 7800

Monday to Friday 9 to 5

Staffed by midwives. Pregnancy, loss, and worries in the weeks after birth.

Tommy's describe this as a non-urgent line and say they cannot make local referrals for you. For anything urgent, use your midwife, maternity unit or 111.

Family Action: FamilyLine

Registered charity 264713 (England and Wales), Isle of Man 1206

Free England and Wales Callers 18+

0808 802 6666

Monday to Friday 9am to 7pm, closed bank holidays

Also text 07537 404 282 during those hours.

Out of hours, text FAMILYACTION to 85258. Free 24/7 This is one of the few routes on this page that will answer you in the middle of the night, and it costs nothing. Callers to FamilyLine must be 18 or over, and the service covers England and Wales.

Action for Children: Parent Talk

Registered charity 1097940 (England and Wales) and SC038092 (Scotland), Isle of Man 29, Guernsey CH330

Free Online, not a phone line Covers sleep

0300 123 2112 is general enquiries, not a parenting helpline. The service you want is Parent Talk, which is free and online: webchat and WhatsApp with parenting coaches, Monday to Friday plus extended sessions on Monday and Thursday evenings. Sleep is within its scope.

Parent Talk

Barnardo's

Registered charity 216250 (England and Wales) and SC037605 (Scotland)

No general parenting helpline

Barnardo's does not run a general parenting helpline, despite frequently appearing on lists of them. They have run specialist helplines for particular groups, but the Refugee Family Helpline closed in March 2025 and the mental health helpline for people seeking asylum shows its funding as closed, so do not count on those either. For general parenting support by phone, use Coram Family Lives or Family Action instead.

Gingerbread (single parents)

Registered charity 230750 (England and Wales), company 00402748

Helpline closed Charity still running

Gingerbread's helpline closed on 1 April 2025. The old number is still printed on dozens of council directories and it will not get you support. We confirmed the closure twice, independently, on Gingerbread's own contact page.

Gingerbread itself is very much still going. What it offers now is free online information, over 50 volunteer-led local and online groups across England and Wales, and an online forum. For a single parent who wants to speak to somebody by phone, Coram Family Lives on 0808 800 2222 is the closest working equivalent.

Baby Buddy app (Babyzone)

Babyzone: registered charity 1198316 (England and Wales) and SC054355 (Scotland)

App

The Baby Buddy app moved to Babyzone in March 2025, after Best Beginnings ceased to exist. If you were looking for Baby Buddy at Best Beginnings, this is where it went.

babyzone.org.uk/baby-buddy

Netmums and Mumsnet are companies, not charities

Both are commercial businesses. Netmums Limited (company 04407586) is more than 75 per cent owned by Aufeminin, a French parent company. Mumsnet Limited (company 03951486) is more than 75 per cent owned by Mnet Holdings.

That does not make them useless. Reading other parents describing the same 3am you are having can be worth a great deal. But they are forums, not moderated support services, and nothing you read there is clinical advice. If you need someone accountable and trained, use one of the helplines above.

Where this comes from

Last checked 1 August 2026. This page is general information, not medical advice. If you are worried about your child, speak to your health visitor or GP.