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Getting the bedroom right

Light, screens, white noise, temperature and what to keep out.

The short version

  • Keep white noise well below maximum and place it far from the cot: measured sleep machines reached levels that may damage infant hearing.
  • This is often the cheapest thing to try, and none of it needs a spare room or new equipment. A blanket at the window works.
  • Keep the room your child falls asleep in the same as it will be at 2am: night light on at bedtime means on all night.
  • Switch screens off 30 to 60 minutes before bed, or at the start of the routine, and keep them out of the bedroom.
  • Aim for around 18°C, 16 to 20°C for babies. No caffeine within six hours of bed, and active play four to six hours before.

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Getting the bedroom right

This is often the cheapest thing to try, and none of it needs a spare room or new equipment.

Light and dark

The Sleep Charity says a dark environment can help with melatonin production, and blackout blinds help with early waking in summer. If blinds are not something you can buy, a thick curtain, a blanket or a piece of card at the window does much the same job. Some children need a soft light on to feel safe, and that is fine: Cerebra suggests red-based lights where you can.

The consistency rule, which matters more than the brightness. Cerebra: make sure, as far as possible, that "the environment that your child falls asleep in is the same as it would be if they were then to wake during the night." If the night light is on when they fall asleep, leave it on all night. If music is playing as they drift off, they will look for it again at 2am.

Screens

NHS advice is to avoid screens 30 to 60 minutes before bed. The Sleep Charity switches them off at the start of the routine, roughly an hour before, and keeps TVs, consoles, tablets and phones out of the bedroom. Derbyshire NHS adds that this should not feel like a punishment: children need something to do instead.

The evidence: Carter and colleagues in JAMA Pediatrics, 2016, a meta-analysis of 17 studies covering 125,198 children. Using a device at bedtime was associated with roughly double the odds of not getting enough sleep, and with poorer sleep quality and more daytime sleepiness. Having one in the room unused was associated with similar effects. Two caveats: it covers ages 6 to 18, not babies and toddlers, and the studies were observational, so they show association, not proof.

White noise, and the hearing question

The Sleep Charity says white noise can mask background noise and may be useful. One safety finding comes first: Hugh and colleagues, in Pediatrics in 2014, measured 14 infant sleep machines. All 14 exceeded 50 decibels (dBA) at 30cm, the recommended nursery limit, and three exceeded 85 dBA, which over eight hours would breach adult workplace noise limits. They concluded the machines can produce sound levels that may damage infant hearing. BASIS adds a second risk: a machine loud enough to disturb your own sleep can prompt moving the baby out of your room sooner than planned, and room sharing is itself protective. So place it as far from the cot as the room allows, keep the volume well below maximum, do not run it loud all night, and follow the manufacturer's guidance.

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Last checked 1 August 2026. This page is general information, not medical advice. If you are worried about your child, speak to your health visitor or GP.