What is normal at each age
Most parents looking for help are describing something completely normal. Here is what sleep actually looks like, and how wide the normal range is.
In this section
Waking at night is normal
The evidence that waking is expected, and may even be protecting your baby.
How much sleep, by age
The hours children need, and how to tell yours is getting enough.
Age by age
Newborn to school age, and what is happening at each stage.
Where this comes from
- NHS, your baby's sleep patterns, newborn sleep ranges, tiny tummies, solid foods and night waking, and the "growing, alert and happy" reassurance test.
- Cambridgeshire and Peterborough Children's Health (NHS), sleep, the hours-by-age table.
- Galland et al. 2012, Sleep Medicine Reviews, systematic review of 34 studies, ages 0 to 12: average total sleep and the normal ranges around it, and night-waking ranges.
- Pennestri et al. 2018, Pediatrics, the proportion of 6 and 12 month olds not sleeping through, and the absence of any association with development or maternal mood.
- Henderson et al. 2010, Pediatrics, the three competing definitions of sleeping through the night and the proportions still not meeting them at 12 months.
- BASIS, infant sleep biology, circadian development, sleep cycle length, settling at 3 to 6 months, arousal as protective, and "sleep regression" lacking a biological basis.
- BASIS, human culture and infant sleep, the cultural history of expectations and the line about expectations rather than babies being the problem.
- The Lullaby Trust, sleep deprivation, the UK parent survey figures, and their statement that around a third of babies will never have slept all night by 12 months.
- General Practice Infant Feeding Network, sleep and safe sleeping, Brown and Harries 2015 on feeding method and night waking.
- Derbyshire Family Health Service (NHS), baby sleep, increased waking around 4 to 5 and 8 to 9 months.
- NHS, separation anxiety, that it commonly emerges between 6 months and 3 years.
- UNICEF UK Baby Friendly, night feeding being normal and essential, not adding anything to bottle feeds, and why accepting normal infant sleep relieves pressure.
- The Sleep Charity, sleep guidance for ages 7 to 12 and their caveat that the hours are a guide.
Last checked 1 August 2026. This page is general information, not medical advice. If you are worried about your child, speak to your health visitor or GP.